Saturday, December 13, 2008

Gift Giving

So I decided to split up the Traditions posts...sorry. While we all know that Christmas has gotten to commercial and materialistic, we can not forget that a huge Christmas tradition is gift giving. We all know that the wise men brought Christ gifts but I wanted to see why else we give gifts on Christmas. These are a few references I found on the internet.

Christmas is a unique festival of merry making and gift-giving. The tradition of giving gifts in this season owes its origin to the Magi who came from the east of Jerusalem to greet the Babe in the manger with gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh. The Magi were wise men and their gifts were emblematic of tribute, worship and death - of Christ considered as King, God and the sacrificial Victim.Though Magi are associated more with the Feast of Epiphany on January 6, they can be regarded as the pioneer in gift-giving tradition following the birth of Jesus. In America gift giving has come to be associated with the Christmas not long ago. It came in with the introduction of St. Nicholas in America by the early Dutch settlers. But, giving gifts at New Year was a common practice, specially among the English and the French settlers. But the combined German and Dutch influences in time caused all gift-giving to be carried out at Christmas.



The custom of giving gifts to relatives and friends on a special day in winter probably began in ancient Rome and northern Europe. In these regions, people gave each other small presents as part of their year-end celebrations.
In the United States and England, children hang stockings on their bedpost or near a fireplace on Christmas Eve, hoping that it will be filled with treats while they sleep. In Scandinavia, similar-minded children leave their shoes on the hearth. This tradition can be traced to legends about Saint Nicholas. One legend tells of three poor sisters who could not marry because they had no money for a dowry. To save them from being sold by their father, St. Nick left each of the three sisters gifts of gold coins. One went down the chimney and landed in a pair of shoes that had been left on the hearth. Another went into a window and into a pair of stockings left hanging by the fire to dry. No one was really in the habit of exchanging elaborate gifts until late in the 1800s. The Santa Claus stories of giving gifts to good children, combined with an amazing retailing phenomenon that has grown since the turn of the century, has made gift giving a central focus of the Christmas tradition.

Hopefully while we give gifts, we can still remember the true meaning of Christmas and we can remember that it is not about all the materialistic items. I love buying gifts for friends and family. This year I found as we decided to cut back (because of the economy and a vacation the week after Christmas) I have found Christmas more meaningful and that I have actually enjoyed finding gifts for people more, even though I have a strict budget.

Well, I have gotten half way through my 25 Blogs of Christmas. Hopefully I can keep it up.

Happy Holidays!

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